Have you had real time experience with the activity?
Indicate YES or NO next to each item. Write N/A if it does not apply to your gender.
Are you willing/open to trying an activity?
For each item, indicate the degree to which you are willing to try that particular activity by rating it on a scale of 0-5 (see rating scale below).
If you write "0", it means you will not do that item under any circumstance (a hard limit). There is nothing wrong with indicating "0" on an item. However, if you write "0" next to every item, you should probably find another interest to pursue.... like knitting or basket weaving. *grin*
If you do not understand what an activity is, mark that item with a "?".
0 Utterly no desire to do that activity and don’t like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and ordinarily would object to doing it, but you would permit the Dominant to do it if they really wanted it (sometimes called a soft limit)
1 Don’t want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn’t object it if was asked of you
2 Willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you
3 Usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/occasional basis
4 You like doing this activity and would like to experience it on a regular basis
5 Is a wild turn-on for you and you would like it as often as possible